Anna Quindlen

“Books are the plane, and the train, and the road. They are the destination, and the journey. They are home.”

“The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself.”

“My child looked at me and I looked back at him in the delivery room, and I realized that out of a sea of infinite possibilities it had come down to this: a specific person, born on the hotte...”

“The thing about old friends is not that they love you, but that they know you. They remember that disastrous New Year's Eve when you mixed White Russians and champagne, and how you wore that...”

“Here is one of the worst things about having someone you love die: It happens again every single morning.”

“The beginning and the end are never really the journey of discovery for me. It is the middle that remains a puzzle until well into the writing. That's how life is most of the time, isn't it?...”

“Seek respect, not attention. It lasts longer.”

“If your success is not on your own terms, if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart, it is not success at all.”

“It's a complicated relationship, being a good grandparent, because it hinges on a series of other relationships... Because being a grandparent is determined by the relationship your child ha...”

“The biggest mistake I made is the one that most of us make while doing this. I did not live in the moment enough. This is particularly clear now that the moment is gone, captured only in pho...”

“I would be most content if my children grew up to be the kind of people who think decorating consists mostly of building enough bookshelves.”

“In books I have traveled, not only to other worlds, but into my own.”

“those of us who read because we love it more than anything, who feel about bookstores the way some people feel about jewelers...”

“How is it that, a full two centuries after Jane Austen finished her manuscript, we come to the world of Pride and Prejudice and find ourselves transcending customs, strictures, time, mores,...”

“It turned out that when my younger self thought of taking wing, she wanted only to let her spirit soar. Books are the plane, the train, and the road. They are the destination, and the journe...”

“If I get the forty additional years statisticians say are likely coming to me, I could fit in at least one, maybe two new lifetimes. Sad that only one of those lifetimes can include being th...”

“I am an affirmative action hire.”

“There is only room in the lifeboat of your life for one, and you always choose yourself, and turn your parents into whatever it takes to keep you afloat.”

“The greatest public health threat for many American women is the men they live with.”

“The future is built on brains, not prom court, as most people can tell you after attending their high school reunion. But you'd never know it by talking to kids or listening to the messages...”