Robin DiAngelo

“The language of violence that many whites use to describe anti-racist endeavors is not without significance, as it is another example of how white fragility distorts reality.”

“I have found that the only way to give feedback without triggering white fragility is not to give it at all.”

“White fragility is a state in which even a minimum amount of racial stress becomes intolerable, triggering a range of defensive moves.”

“White fragility doesn't always manifest in overt ways; silence and withdrawal are also functions of fragility.”

“Most whites live, grow, play, learn, love, work and die primarily in social and geographic racial segregation. Yet, our society does not teach us to see this as a loss. Pause for a moment an...”

“I think our everyday coded language around 'good neighborhoods' and 'bad neighborhoods' is what allows for tremendous violence to happen... When you label a neighborhood 'bad' and avoid it,...”

“The default of our society is the reproduction of racial inequality. I mean, that's what it does; that's what it's been doing for hundreds of years.”

“For white people, their identities rest on the idea of racism as about good or bad people, about moral or immoral singular acts, and if we're good, moral people, we can't be racist - we don'...”

“One cannot understand how racism functions in the U.S. today if one ignores group power relations.”

“Like a nontechnical user trying to understand a technical problem, our racial illiteracy limits our ability to have meaningful conversations about race.”

“We whites who position ourselves as liberal often opt to protect what we perceive as our moral reputationsrather than recognize or change our participation in systems of inequity and dominat...”

“Denying that race matters is irrational in the face of segregation and all of the other forms of obvious racial inequity in society... Maintaining this denial of reality takes tremendous emo...”

“White people in North America live in a social environment that protects and insulates them from race-based stress. This insulated environment of racial protection builds white expectations...”

“While having friends of color is better than not having them, it doesn't change the overall system or prevent racism from surfacing in our relationships. The societal default is white superi...”

“Human beings can only make sense of the world through the lens they were socialized to make sense of it through.”

“I grew up poor and white. While my class oppression has been relatively visible to me, my race privilege has not. In my efforts to uncover how race has shaped my life, I have gained deeper i...”

“One of the most important misunderstandings for white people to get over to move forward is this idea that racism is a good-bad proposition - that if we're good we can't be part of it, that...”

“There is no human objectivity.”

“White consciousness is deeply anti-black, and that's for progressives and conservatives.”

“As white people in this society, we are socialized from the time that we're born to see ourselves as superior, to see white people and things associated white people as superior. At the same...”